We have, in theory, a visitation agreement we can live with. Now we need to see it in writing. I am feeling confident enough that today I ordered a new bed for the girls. In the beginning, Hope will have the lower bed in the little room. When it is safe and appropriate, Hope and her bed will share a room with GB, set up as shown in the picture. GB thinks the bedding in the picture is uuuugly. We found nice tie-dyed huggers (comforters made for bunk beds with elastic on the bottom) in Wallyworld for $30 a piece (as opposed to the $685 they want for the set in the picture). A true bargain 🙂 Notice the top bunk has stairs for Ellie. GB didn’t think Ellie could climb a ladder!